Be your own directors

Alex Ardizzone hammered into his peers the importance of taking the reins on life.

Josh Dowlen noted the future may be intimidating, but it’s also exciting.

Mara Bader reminded their class to live in the moment.

Jay County High School recognized 211 graduating members of its Class of 2023 during a ceremony Sunday with heartfelt words and a focus on memories.

Ardizzone asked his class to imagine a film studio wanted to make a movie about their life after high school.

“There will be no cuts, no edits, no sequel,” he said. “You have one shot.”

Ardizzone explained his peers would have two options in his fictional scenario. They could either hire a successful director and sacrifice their life choices and individuality, or direct the movie themselves and produce a film that’s mediocre to others but a masterpiece in their own eyes.

He suggested the class and others in the crowd relate his example to their lives.

“Will you be the director, or the directed?” asked Ardizzone. “The choice is up to you, and my fellow classmates, it’s time to decide. You have one shot.”

Dowlen said the class shouldn’t let their fears prevent them from celebrating their achievements and looking to new opportunities.

“Don’t be afraid to pursue your passions, even if they don’t fit in the traditional mold of success,” he said. “Stay true to (yourselves), always strive for success, take big risks, follow your passions and never let the fear of making a mistake keep you from your dreams.”

Bader, senior class president, recalled a guest speech given by former teacher and school board member Krista Muhlenkamp at the National Honor Society induction ceremony earlier this year. A phrase that stood out to her from Muhlenkamp’s speech was to “‘be where your feet are.’”

“The best present you can give yourself is to live in the present,” Bader said. “Don’t freak out about the future or worry about the past. Today is what matters … whatever direction your feet may take you, live in the moment.”

Superintendent Jeremy Gulley commended the Class of 2023 for achieving this milestone. Their graduation, he explained, will be a cherished memory for years to come.

“Your accomplishments in the classroom, on the athletic field and in countless extracurricular programs offered both within our schools and throughout our community are a testament to your character and a springboard to your leap into adulthood,” he said.

Gulley pointed out he taught the parents of several students who were graduating Sunday. He recognized parents, veterans and school staff members who have helped the graduates earn their diplomas.

“You (students) have not made it to this day of achievement and celebration on your own,” he said. “Your success is shared by many hearts and many hands.”

Gulley left the graduates with a few pieces of advice.

“Remember to never stop learning,” said Gulley. “Remain curious. Be adaptable. Value community. And use your talents to make a difference.”